Today I received a desperate caller claiming a woman was sick and dying at her home that it was a matter of “life and death” that they needed to have her sign important documents as an emergency. Where do I begin explaining how wrong it is in so many ways to notarize a person whose about to die?
I once answered a call like this 5 years ago at UCSF hospital around midnight and won’t ever do it again. The dying man’s body was shutting down and, after being notarized, he died within one agonizing hour according to his family member. A trust attorney once brought me to a senior for a POA that the bank wouldn’t accept my notarization for an illegible signature. I once arrived to a hospital for some divided family in heated conflict to fight over whether I should be there or not. I also arrived at CPMC for an elderly mother in her hospital bed that some relative rushed over to sign wanting to kill me that I didn’t accept his niece’s U.S. Passport Card who came from Oakland. Seriously, the guy was fuming at me!
Yes, I like to be there for people but a dying person lacks capacity and/or is being coerced in a vulnerable situation as they die to sign documents. I don’t want any probate judge or clerk for that matter, to witness my notary stamp on a dying person’s document ever again.
In my view, they can battle the issues out in probate court without having to involve the notary as witness of the death bed signing let alone burdening a dying person. It’s traumatizing to watch a person in dire pain putting my notary journal before them for a price. By the way, what sickness does the person have that I should be confident won’t affect my own health?
It’s against God’s will that I attend to a dying person this way as a profitable transaction. They’re entering eternity and God may note, “a notary Cheryl was at your side having you sign her journal? Check!”
I think it’s unnecessary for a NP to be summoned to a dying person’s bed to sign documents. Hospitals like UCSF should prohibit this practice. It’s the family’s fault they didn’t prep better for end of life documents. For instance, the dying man I described earlier whose body was shutting down? He was a big time solar CEO who had to be flown by helicopter taken from Mount Kilimanjaro to the hospital that he had neglected to get his trust documents in order prior to the trip!
Dying is a serious deeply personal matter that a for profit NP shouldn’t attend nor witness another this way in my opinion. We need to be mindful of being in the presence of a near to death person when we really shouldn’t be. For instance, earlier generations summoned men and women of God to pray at the dying’s bedside as people sadly awaited the moment of death’s arrival.
Imagine the possibility you as a notary public are at a stranger’s death bed who his family has arranged for you to notarize his trust documents including deed transfers. He is about to enter eternity and there you are in his face distracting him with papers to sign and thumbprints that he thinks to himself after 80 years on earth being in tremendous pain and suffering “I hate notary publics! I hate this greedy b*tch here making a buck off my death putting me through all of this sh**t!”
A Notary Public with his/her journal open on the dying’s bed thereafter accepting credit card payment doesn’t belong in this picture. This is the type of thing NP’s get a bad reputation for being vultures attending to death bed notarizations that I can assure that God doesn’t approve of at all. You can rationalize it all you want, just not a good idea if you value your soul.