Requesting a back-dating, my o my: it does not get any more blatant than that… totally criminal; not just unethical, but literally law-breaking criminal.
I know I’m late responding. Now that it’s been a while and things are over on this I wanted to say that they likely do a lot of telling a “Notary to go” when they don’t get their way. Don’t take it personally, it’s about money I’m sure.